My life of BDSM began in New York. I was a mere 21 years old and still in college when a group of us would frequent the popular S/M clubs. I used to just go and watch –a complete voyeur! Later, I started going by Myself when the novelty wore off for My friends. I was intrigued and wanted to participate, but didn’t know how to get involved. I decided to do a paper on S/M while in school, and made an appointment to visit one of the local BDSM clubs in the city. I interviewed the ladies, and even did a few “cameos” during My jaunt. I was impressed by the intellect and creativity of the Mistresses. For them, having men grovel at their feet all day was a way of life. I asked if I could come back for a second interview. This time I fully participated –commanding slaves to do things for me, to satisfy whatever desire I had at the moment, and then punishing them if they didn’t meet My standards. I was a complete natural! I loved having that power and I felt that I deserved it. It was as if I had found My place, My home. I took a good long look at My life up to that point and realized that I had been dominating men on some level all along; only I didn’t know there was a name for it.

I used to humiliate one boyfriend in high school by making him do a strip show for Me, and then whipping him with a belt if he wasn’t “dedicated” enough. I also remember taking another high school boyfriend to a shopping mall dressed head to toe in women’s clothing. Hmmm, I wonder how it shaped their lives?

Back at school, I did My paper on BDSM (which left a classroom full of dropped jaws and an A+ for me) and went to work at this dungeon. A few of the ladies showed Me the ropes, so to speak, and a Pro-Domme was born! I acquired a stable of slaves in the Big Apple and was sad to leave them behind when I made the decision to sew My sadistic oats out west. After a brief stay at the famous Velvet Underground, I chose to take up residence at Lady Laura’s Dominion. The Velvet Underground was a wonderful place, but more for the established Domina. I was pretty much starting over. Laura’s was great to Me and a really nice place to play. They really were responsible for introducing Me to the L.A. scene. I loved the Dominion so much that I stayed there for 4 years before venturing out on My own. During those years, I learned and grew more than I ever had before, and met some wonderful players.

I am now an independent Mistress with My own private stable of slaves. I am at a very content stage in My life. Most of the slaves that are new to Me have done their research and are extremely compatible. I have molded My style and demeanor over the years to what I am now. I know what I want out of a scene and I go after it. I love the adrenaline rush and endorphins that I get while playing. I love being under the rule of My world. I love being served and have grown to love some of My slaves. If and when I decide to leave the pro-scene, I know that it will always be a part of My personal life. I learned that I cannot live without it and it is a part of who I am.